So, I am a HUGE proponent that from a “looks” perspective – we
should strive to feel comfortable in our skin, no matter what our weight… shirking the crappy societal pressure to look like a supermodel. Some of the most amazingly beautiful women I have ever met have been seriously curvy. (Ask me about the Pole Dance Recital I attended once for more on that).
I don’t believe that dropping weight for an event is necessarily the healthiest thing you can do. It *can* be, if done for the right reasons – and if your goals are also reasonable. But I believe crash dieting to (for example) fit into a wedding dress creates WAY more stress and detriment than any possible benefit.
That being said, I have been approached by a few potential customers who want to do just that: lose weight for a wedding, a reunion, some type of event coming up in their lives. I am moving forward in working with most of them, but a couple were not a good fit for me personally.
Here’s a few tips and questions for you (or someone you know) that is thinking about losing weight for an event.
1) Are you ready for a true lifestyle change or is this just a quick fix and you’re going to go back to “normal” immediately after said event?
2) How far out is the event? I promote a 90 Day Challenge. Now, some people have amazing results, hitting their goal the first month, losing 10 lbs the first week, etc., but again – being reasonable with your goals creates a much higher chance of success. (under-promising and over-delivering, and all that)
3) Are you able to have some semblance of a schedule with your eating? The people that are able to: a) eat within an hour of waking, b) have healthy snacks in between main meals, c) drink a fair amount of water, and d) get SOME physical activity in will tend to have the best results.
4) What do you have for support / how good is your willpower? Do you have friends or family members that would be willing to work towards a goal at the same time as you? (We call them Challenge buddies). Do you have a vehicle for overcoming cravings if they happen? Especially as something like a wedding gets closer, the stress level usually goes up, which can make “stress eating” a little easier to succumb to.
I have seen the 90 Day Challenge absolutely CRUSH all of these issues for hundreds of people – it provides the plan, the craving domination, the support, and just enough structure to create a true path to success – but only if you are ready to work it!
What can YOU accomplish in the next 90 days?







